QUOTE(高跟鞋与破花布 @ 2005年05月09日 Monday, 08:25 PM)
My dearest buddy,
Everything would fade away with the lovely wings of time. I trust we can, and of course we need to live through great sorrow when we're growing up! We need to understand that suffering, frustration and failure are not only invevitable but helpful.
In order to feel deeplu it is necessary to feel everything. It is impossible to choose. You cannot really know how wonderful your happiness is when you're living with your true love unless you are also deeply aware of pain of failure.
There is nothing so terrible about failure and feeling pain. What hurts in the long run is not trying because of the fear of pain!!!