what is love? (转帖)
From Big friend:
I have predicted that you might run away with a younger guy one day...you will if there is enough push...if someone falls in love and she is really in love.. what can stop her?...
what is that love of yours? other than just having some chat with a guy?may be you only like the feelings of it ?and you are not going to act on it.....
I am afraid it may not be enough to make you giving up everything that you have ..you just want the feel of it., reminds you when you were young and in love the first time...
when it comes to the execution.. you are too afraid and hesitate.you don't want to go through the trouble.
"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then, one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy, one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness." (Woody Allen)
Of course he is shy... as he is young and does not know what he is doing..you only want the love feeling part.. you want feel the love just as you were watching.love movies... you sobbed, you were touched. you moved by the romance .. yet you didn't really receive the pain and suffering consequences of the love process.
So if I was your husband .. I have nothing to worry as I know you will not fly away.
but if I was the young man.. I will try to sweep you off your feet and take you away with me .. I won't let you just enjoy your self-feeling being in love but really make you suffer, feeling burning and crashed, feeling no way out but make your choice ...
I will not be shy.. I will act on the love making you mad and crazy love is action, an act between a man and a woman,mentally and physically, with all levels of the emotion..